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I decided to go through the [community profile] questionoftheday posts from before I started blogging on Dreamwidth, look for some inspiration.

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[community profile] questionoftheday asks: How do you think you would get along with clones of yourself? Would your clones be able to get along with each other?

My answer:

Pedantic answer: I know my parents wanted more kids, but I think one sibling is probably enough for me. The exact answer depends on how much younger the twin is, since "clone" tends to indicate that your twin is significantly younger than you (rather than gestating alongside you).

Colloquial answer: I feel like I would probably get along pretty well with my forks, though if they're, like, Opia levels of accuracy we're going to have to spend some time diverging first in order to get anything done.

I'm not sure why "clones getting along with each other" would have a different answer from "getting along with your clones". Are we not equals?
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[community profile] questionoftheday asks: What is the worst bullshit you have ever put up with for monetary gain?

My answer: Incredibly tedious romance-novel-marketing gruntwork, which required just enough brainpower that you couldn't listen to something more entertaining while you were doing it.

Honestly, even that would probably have been okay if they'd actually paid consistently. Even the same (very low) amount of *average* pay, just with a lower variance! I know there's all that psychological research on gambling, rats pulling levers forever to try to get a stockpile in case of a run of bad luck later and all that, but personally I feel much more motivated to pull a lever for a guaranteed penny than for a 1/1000 chance of $10, and much more motivated by a 1/1000 chance of $10 than a 1/100000 chance of $1,000.

(Edit: although come to think of it I do grok the stockpiling aspect, so I suppose that's a bad example. But, like, there are clearly people who fixate more on the large value of a possible reward than on its small odds, and I am very not one of them, is what I am trying to say. I have to talk myself into gambles by walking myself through their positive expected value, and it's often not easy to do that.)

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A different person might say it's the short-notice changes in schedule at my current job, but for me, when that happens I pretty much never feel resentful at all: my brain just goes "yes, this is why they are paying us such ridiculously large quantities of money, I knew exactly what I was signing up for and I regret nothing".

(To clarify, it pays minimum wage. But I have very low standards for what constitutes a ridiculously large quantity of money, and it *is* true that "must be able to handle short-notice schedule changes" was an explicit condition of the job opening I applied for.)
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[community profile] questionoftheday asks: Do you sleep in silence, or do you have to have background noise? Is there a reason for this? How about light? Does it have to be pitch black, or do you need at least a sliver of light to sleep?

My answer: I keep a humidifier running in my bedroom at night throughout the year, because even when I don't need much humidification it's still a very good white-noise machine. (it's the wicking kind that inherently adapts to the ambient moisture level, so it doesn't over-humidify in summer: it just uses very little water then)

I also recorded the humidifier's sound and keep a copy on my phone, as an emergency backup in case of power outage or travel. (Haven't tried using it yet, not sure how well it'll work.)

I have a very hard time getting to sleep if I can hear snoring, though: I would definitely much rather have silence than that.

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A nightlight in the same room is excessive and keeps me awake. A bit of indirect light is best. The streetlights out the window work well for this.

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(My mom and occasionally my dad snore, and when I was a kid they always used a nightlight. I did not realise how terrible sleeping in their bed was until after I stopped. I actually resisted using my own bed at the time, because better the devil you know.)
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[community profile] questionoftheday asks: Does your family have any unique holiday traditions? What's the story behind them?

My answer: For Rosh Hashanah, we bake a birthday cake for the world. Weather permitting, we take it outside and have the wind blow it out.

For New Year's Eve, we eat a chocolate orange. Originally this was because we had usually picked one up on Boxing Day (just about the only time they're reasonably priced), but the tradition has fossilised enough that when Sobey's had a post-Easter sale on chocolate oranges and we saw they didn't expire until January, we went ahead and bought our New Year's orange then. It's been sitting in the cupboard since spring, and its time has almost come.

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